A Reason, A Season, A Lifetime

Have you ever ran into an old friend or acquaintance from years ago and your interaction with them was somewhat awkward?  It was like you knew who they were but they were no longer the person that you used to know. I’ve experienced a lot of those moments lately. I’ve heard the saying, people come … Continue reading A Reason, A Season, A Lifetime

How Many Dating Partners Should A Person Have?

We have all heard the saying “don’t put all your eggs in one basket” and I believe this same phrase should be applied to the number of dating partners that a person should have. Now before you give me the “side eye” I’m not saying that you should have sex with everyone that you date but I do think that it is okay to casually date several people at one time.

I will use a personal experience as an example. A few years ago when I was in school I was casually dating a guy and I started developing strong feelings for him. He was the only guy that I was dating at the time but he on the other hand was dating other women. He ended up pursuing a relationship with one of the other females that he was dating which led to me getting hurt. Now I couldn’t be upset with him because I knew he was dating other people. My mistake was not clearly relaying to him my feelings and what my future relationship goals were.

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